Sexual Assault Awareness Month
by: Heather DePeal
If you are a parent, grandparent, guardian, or someone who works with children, learning about sexual development and healthy sexuality is key to preventing child sexual abuse. Healthy sexuality incorporates: self esteem, values, boundaries, respect, and personal awareness.
When children have accurate, ongoing, and age-appropriate information, they will be more confident and better equipped to handle an uncomfortable and inappropriate situation should one arise. Types of information include: anatomically correct names for “private parts”, when touch is harmful and abusive, and that the abuse can occur from someone they know, such as a family member or older, stronger child.
The earlier children learn this information (suggested age is four years) the more comfortable they will be in their ability to protect themselves or disclose to a trusted adult. It’s not uncommon for parents to have questions about how to approach the topic with their young children. Many parents feel uncomfortable verbalizing anatomically correct words to their young children and may find it helpful to practice saying them aloud to themselves in a private location, such as on the drive to work, before talking with their children. When parents are comfortable with the conversation, children will understand that the subject is not something to be ashamed of, and that they are allowed to talk about it with their parents or other trusted adult.
Historically, programs such as “Stranger Danger” were taught to alert children of the dangers of being abused or abducted by a stranger. However, studies have shown that a majority of sexual abuse cases involve an individual known to the child victim, such as a relative, family friend, or other child. For this reason, the “Stranger Danger” curriculum has been replaced with more appropriate curriculums that teach children that it’s not ok for ANYONE to touch them in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable.
Dr. Betty Caponera of the New Mexico Interpersonal Violence Data Central Repository, reported that 245 out of 281 children under the age of 12 years, was sexually abused by someone known to them. “Approximately three-quarters (77% of 189) were victimized by a family member, 17% (41) by an acquaintance, and 1% (3) respectively, by a stranger or brief encounter”.
Sexual Assault Services of Northwest New Mexico (SAS) now offers the Care for Kids Program, which is a health based curriculum for children ages 4-7. This prevention program is taught to children and reinforced by parents or care givers. It helps adults understand the link between healthy sexuality education and child sexual abuse prevention. For more information, please call SAS of NWNM at (505) 325-2805.Read Full Post | Make a Comment ( 1 so far )
by: Eleana Butler
The month of April has been designated Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) in the United States. The goal of SAAM is to raise public awareness about sexual violence and to educate communities and individuals on how to prevent it. By working together and pooling our resources during the month of April, we can highlight sexual violence as a major public health, human rights, and social justice issue and reinforce the need for prevention efforts. The theme chosen this year for our community is “Break the Silence on Sexual Violence!”
Sexual assault is the least reported crime to law enforcement for many reasons, mainly because victims are afraid they won’t be believed or that they will be blamed for the assault. Silence keeps a community in the dark about the amount of sexual assault and violence that occurs. The numbers are shocking: every 2 minutes someone in the US is sexually assaulted – this is over 200,000 victims per year. 44% of victims are under the age of 18, and 80% are under the age of 30. Approximately 2/3 of assaults are committed by someone known to the victim.
Join in and help Break the Silence on Sexual Violence!
A list of this month’s events is located on the Community Events page.
Sexual Assault Services of Northwest New Mexico
24-Hour Rape Crisis Hotline: (505) 326-4700 or 866-908-4700Read Full Post | Make a Comment ( None so far )
Each year the task force as well as individual member agencies, host an array of events in light of Sexual Assault Awareness month. Much brainstorming went on behind the scenes to make April 2012 an educational opportunity as well as bring in funds for the task force and associated agencies.
Prevalence of the Problem
On average, there are 207,754 victims of rape and sexual assault throughout the United States each year. Out of every 100 rapes, only 46 are reported to the police. In 2006, San Juan County’s five law enforcement agencies (Aztec, Bloomfield, Farmington, Sheriff’s Office and State Police) had 76 CSP (criminal sexual penetration) incidents reported. That number rose to 326 in 2010 with 31% of the victims being under 12 years of age.
Monetary Costs & Long-Term Effects
The monetary costs of adult rapes total an estimate of $127 billon per year. Much of these costs are directly related to medical and mental health services making sexual assault a community health issue. Rape crisis centers help alleviate such societal costs by providing much needed services to survivors of this devastating crime.
The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) is one of the main funding sources of rape crisis centers, but this alone is not enough. Advocacy groups, such as our local task force, work hard throughout the year to raise additional funds to provide survivors with support services that are crucial in helping to reduce long-term effects caused by sexual assault related trauma. Such effects can include post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, relationship problems, loss of work, eating disorders, substance abuse, and insomnia. This list of effects is not all-inclusive but puts into perspective the impact that sexual assault can have on an individual.
Making A Change
Community awareness and education is imperative to facilitate change surrounding misbeliefs that are all too common in society. End Violence Against Women International’s (EVAWI) Start by Believing campaign addresses the importance of a supportive response to the victim when he or she discloses a sexual assault. All too often, victims of sexual assault are not believed by the individual whom they disclose to. Having a negative response towards the victim can be the determining factor as to whether or not he or she will seek further assistance.
So What Did the Task Force Do This Year?
Thanks to the generous donations from community businesses and members, the task force and associated agencies were able to host a variety of awareness campaigns and fundraising events. Such events help bring attention to this community health issue that can not be overlooked. In addition, funds raised help to support local rape crisis and advocacy groups so that sexual assault survivors here in San Juan County may continue to receive the services they need.
Teal Ribbon Campaign:
Local law enforcement officers placed teal ribbons, donated by the San Juan County Sheriff’s Office, on their vehicles to show support for Sexual Assault Awareness month.
This year’s play, A Memory, A Monologue, A Rant and A Prayer, written by Eve Ensler, author of The Vagina Monologues, took place at Piedra Vista High School. The annual play is put on in an effort to bring attention to and stop violence against women & girls. Proceeds for this event benefited Sexual Assault Services of Northwest New Mexico and New Beginnings transitional shelter.
Take Back the Night:
This year’s march started at Safeway West and ended at the Farmington Civic Center. Approximately 75 participants gathered at the center, watched a short clip about the Start By Believing Campaign, shared personal stories about sexual assault, and ended the event with a candlelight vigil.
Sassy Tortoise & Hare Run:
This was the second annual 10k run, 5k run/walk, and 1 mile kids run/walk hosted by Sexual Assault Services of Northwest New Mexico (SAS). The run took place at the Lions Wilderness Park. All proceeds benefited SAS, which provides SANE exams (Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner) and advocacy services to sexual assault survivors.
The Eat Up to Speak Up fundraiser hosted by Chili’s was a new event for the task force. Patrons provided a pre-made flyer with their ticket and 10% of the total was donated to the task force.
Thanks to Majestic Media, the task force was able to launch EVAWI’s Start by Believing campaign here in our community. Captions from the campaign, in addition to April’s events, were displayed on Majestic’s digital billboards, in the Tri-City Tribune, and on the Tri-City nightly news.
The task force would like to thank all the donors that made this year’s events possible:
Farmington Police Department
Aztec Police Department
Bloomfield Police Department
City of Farmington
Little Caesar’s Pizza
Thank you to the Daily Times for providing coverage for Take Back the Night.
SASSY Run Sponsors:
City of Bloomfield
Northwest NM Women’s Health Specialists
Simpson Law Office
RC Mobile Home Transport
Cascade Bottled Water
Desert Hills Dental Care
San Juan College
State Farm-Trudy Goldsmith
City of Farmington
Farmington Police Department
Bob and Janet Burns
Farmington Family Practice
San Juan Endoscopy
Trust Law Associates
Great Harvest Bread Company
Serenity Touchless Massage
Jim & Dalene Reese
Thank you to Dairy Queen in Kirtland for donating coupons for our kids run/walk participants.
U.S. Department of Justice. National Crime Victimization Survey. 2006-2010.
New Mexico Interpersonal Violence Data Central Repository. Sex Crimes In New Mexico IX: An Analysis of 2010 Data. 2011.
National Institute of Justice. Victim Costs and Consequences: A New Look. 1996
The National Alliance To End Sexual Violence.
The Costs and Consequences of Sexual Violence and Cost-Effective Solutions. 2011
Have you seen the teal ribbons on local law enforcement vehicles and wondered, “What are they for?” Teal is the official color of sexual assault awareness and to show their support, Farmington, Aztec, and Bloomfield Police Departments, along with the San Juan County Sheriff’s Department are placing teal ribbons on the antennas of their vehicles throughout the month of April.
After the education committee requested the agencies to participate in the teal ribbon campaign, the sheriff’s department constructed and donated the ribbons for each agency. This is just one of the many events that have taken place during the month of April to help raise awareness about sexual assault in our community.
The task force would like to thank the San Juan County Sheriff’s Department for donating all the teal ribbons and thank all the law enforcement agencies for participating in the teal ribbon campaign!Read Full Post | Make a Comment ( None so far )
Join us for our annual Take Back the Night march and candlelight vigil on April 23rd from 7:00-9:00 pm. Details are on the flyer below. Please fell free to download and print a copy for yourself and others.
Would you like more information on the history of Take Back the Night Events? Visit http://www.takebackthenight.org/history.html to read about the origin and the various communities around the world that participate in Take Back the Night.Read Full Post | Make a Comment ( None so far )
April is Sexual Assault Awareness month and during this time, Task Force agency members will be hosting various events to help shed light on this serious and often silent issue. In addition, the Task Force will launch EVAWI’s (End Violence Against Women International) Start By Believing Campaign here in our community. You will see the beginnings of the campaign throughout Farmington on Majestic Media’s digital billboards, in the Tri-City Tribune and on the Tri-City nightly news cast during the month of April. We would like to thank Majestic Media for helping us launch the campaign and donating advertisement for all of the Task Force’s and affiliated agencies’ events!
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